"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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need some help, not sure what to do

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so i've been dating htis girl.
i recently found out that she isnt exclusively dating me.

now the thing is, she hasnt really lied to me because at no point did she ever say she was.

she HAS been lying to other guy (her exbf), and her ex bf just knocked on my door (no idea how he knows where i live) to tell me this. he's incredibly pissed at her and has now sworn her off.


me on the other hand... im not sure what to do. i listened to his story, but im not mad whatsoever because she hasnt acutally lied to me. but at the same time i do feel like somehting shady was done (even though i dont know what it is)

whats your opinion guys? i need some direction, some pros and cons or somehting. not sure what direction to take this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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have you been sleeping with her ? sounds like she is about to branch swing. You can understand why the ex lol (boyfriend) is pissed off...

It's up to you...are you happy with her level of integrity ? would you be happy with her as her boyfriend if she thought you were about two months away from breaking up and decided to start lining guys up ?
 
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If you're just using her then by all means, if you're looking for a relationship then my advice would be to look elsewhere. Her ex has blown her off, that means you get what's leftover, I am not sure if I'd like to have leftovers.
 
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ok so the girl completely DENIES everything and essentially says this guy is lying.


i have absolutely no idea who to believe.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sounds like you have a choosey susie. A choosie susie is a girl that goes back in forth between different guys. Now you gotta be thinking. How the hell did this dude figure out your address. This would be my main concern. Now if she is lying to the ex boyfriend don't you think she is/will be lying to you at some point?

This girl to me sounds like she enjoys having drama in her life. How old is she?
 
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sinnerman said:
no smoke without fire.
proceed with caution and dont get invested emotionally
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i love this.

she's 25, im 27.
 
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