Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Okay, so I started dating this girl. We hang out earlier last week, and our date went great. Then we met later at Friday, and she really wanted me and we had sex. It was the greatest sex I've ever had. It was amazing. We also cuddle a lot and we're having a great time.

I followed her home, as it would be nice to spend a little time together, and Ineed to do some cardio before my trip to beaches in Greece. She sent me a message thanking me for following me home and for a great night etc.

We talked about meeting the next day, on Saturday. I sent her a message if she's going downtown (where all the bars are) and she said she was on her way. I didn't hear from her and I didn't want to be pushy so I just said "ok, I'm at bar x" and she was like "okay ;)".

I didn't hear from her that night even though she could have met me, got a message later the next day and she said she was at work, it's boring there, asked how the night was etc. We talked some more today and I suggested we might hang out some day this week. She said in return "Hey :) That would be very nice, but I am very busy this week. We'll see :)"

She lives here for the sole purpose of working, so I get that, but..

Why all the sudden isn't she so interested about hanging out? We're having a great time together and she seems very interested (at least until Saturday), at which I have responded and shown my interest too. Now she isn't that interested?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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he was right

the above dude is right
you are available too much, bring some tension and attraction here
you will be fine
 
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