"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Okay, so I started dating this girl. We hang out earlier last week, and our date went great. Then we met later at Friday, and she really wanted me and we had sex. It was the greatest sex I've ever had. It was amazing. We also cuddle a lot and we're having a great time.

I followed her home, as it would be nice to spend a little time together, and Ineed to do some cardio before my trip to beaches in Greece. She sent me a message thanking me for following me home and for a great night etc.

We talked about meeting the next day, on Saturday. I sent her a message if she's going downtown (where all the bars are) and she said she was on her way. I didn't hear from her and I didn't want to be pushy so I just said "ok, I'm at bar x" and she was like "okay ;)".

I didn't hear from her that night even though she could have met me, got a message later the next day and she said she was at work, it's boring there, asked how the night was etc. We talked some more today and I suggested we might hang out some day this week. She said in return "Hey :) That would be very nice, but I am very busy this week. We'll see :)"

She lives here for the sole purpose of working, so I get that, but..

Why all the sudden isn't she so interested about hanging out? We're having a great time together and she seems very interested (at least until Saturday), at which I have responded and shown my interest too. Now she isn't that interested?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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he was right

the above dude is right
you are available too much, bring some tension and attraction here
you will be fine
 
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