Need some help here, I like her but tricky situation

[NealIRC]

It’s not a professional situation. It’s the installation of a home security system. For all we know, this girl works at best buy.

Professional situations are amongst colleagues, or when the situation is on a recurring basis.It sounds like he’s got one more day with her and then it’s adios. And she is not the kind of girl you take out after the work is done.

Is anyone surprised this company only sent 1 girl all this time? Rather than a group of guys?

 

[Divorced w 3]

Is anyone surprised this company only sent 1 girl all this time? Rather than a group of guys?

Is security company a code word in your country for escort service?

 

[NealIRC]

Is security company a code word in your country for escort service?

No.

 

[Divorced w 3]

No.

Then respectfully, the amount of time you’re wasting thinking about this girl is going to give you anxiety. My uneducated guess is her man is not getting it done back at home and she is sending you a huge bat signal to bend her over your kitchen counter. If you don’t want to move on it , that is your right. Look into her eyes. They’ll give her away. That’s all you need to know if you should move on it or not.

 

[TheGambino]

Is security company a code word in your country for escort service?

No ofc not

 

[NealIRC]

Is security company a code word in your country for escort service?

But in USA, I don't know of any types of companies that would either send a solo woman to your place or group of women to your place. Any kind of setup or installation, it's always going to be guys.

The only example I ever seen is a pizza girl delivery, but all her cohorts were guys.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Why is this a tricky situation? She has been at your place at night, you should have made a move. If she rejects you then so be it.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Why is this a tricky situation? She has been at your place at night, you should have made a move. If she rejects you then so be it.

This. Lock the thread.

 

[NealIRC]

This. Lock the thread.

The answer is still not enough information. Topic starter hasn't answered if the woman showed progressive cleavage, or if he actually went to the office in person 1st, and met the staff, including the woman, there. That increases the likelihood of sending a solo woman to his place.

 

[Divorced w 3]

The answer is still not enough information. Topic starter hasn't answered if the woman showed progressive cleavage, or if he actually went to the office in person 1st, and met the staff, including the woman, there. That increases the likelihood of sending a solo woman to his place.

I got this backward. You are not OP. you seemed that way given your commentary. My fault.

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

OP,
Although monkey branching may work at times, look at what being cautious and polite has done for you. Pedistalizing and overthinking what to do next, how to get her, etc. On this path you may get her at some point, but with a lot of patience and smooth, calculated moves. Girls with boyfriends are more likely to cheat on them if you tell them you aren't looking for anything serious, just something casual. Now she is able to have her cake and eat it too, with far less drama and soap opera crap. I love being rejected by girls with boyfriends or husbands... It hurts their ego when a bold confident man isn't afraid to tell her exactly what he wants and isn't phased by her relationship status.

 

[NealIRC]

I love being rejected by girls with boyfriends or husbands... It hurts their ego when a bold confident man isn't afraid to tell her exactly what he wants and isn't phased by her relationship status.

Me too, but I also love being rejected by pregnant women, whom aren't necessarily saying they're taken. By making moves on pregnant women, you're showing her you're not bothered by her pregnancy. XD

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

Me too, but I also love being rejected by pregnant women, whom aren't necessarily saying they're taken. By making moves on pregnant women, you're showing her you're not bothered by her pregnancy. XD

Shouldn't you be trying to lose your virginity?

 

[NealIRC]

Shouldn't you be trying to lose your virginity instead of trolling all over my d*ck?

No, I'm a visual guy. So a preggo women sending exotic photos of her is eye candy for me.

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

No, I'm a visual guy. So a preggo women sending exotic photos of her is eye candy for me.

Whatever keeps you from shooting up innocent civilians.

 

[bat soup]

Just whip it out and see if she runs away screaming.

 

[stringpuller]

What to do here?

So I reacted on a security company for securing my house and company.
They sent a hot girl that's really my type to my home to make a quotation and explain everything.

This girl walks in my house, from the moment we meet we have chemistry. I feel that.
Same humour, laughs, flirting going on, she is in my house for way longer then normal also. I am experienced DJ, I know when a woman is impressed, flirting.

Anyway, I have a nice house and car, I look decent, very clean and shes just a saleswoman.
Now we negotiate and I tell her I also have a company which you can secure.

I will tell you know some crucial info. Yes ofcourse, she uses her charm and flirt to get a big customers in and she has a boyfriend which she mentions. I have to say, she is very very interested in what I think, if I have a wife or a girl, and about my life. I flirt heavily with her and try to seduce her by being playful, flirtious and kind.

Next day she comes to my company and works there allday, shes all over me, showing me videos, trying to get my attention and all the workers keep saying to me. ''wow wtf shes into you, she likes you, you two are flirting whats going on''. Ofcourse I downtalk it as theres nothing much and go about my business.

Today she comes to install the stuff at my place by her own without help, yesterday she brung someone. She tells me if I can take care of food and we have dinner. I flirt again, she flirts in my house, we have a nice dinner, we make fun, and she installs the camera, alarm etc in my house. We make some cexual jokes here and there but I really got her to open up about her childhood, life, everything in general. She really talks a lot about her life and seems to very much to trust me. She is also interested in starting a business and is trying to validate herself to me. I am kind and tell her she has way more potential then what she is doing know and that shes always welcome for everything. I also tell her, you can do whatever you want and that she deserves more.

We have some more cexual jokes here and there, I kino touch her sometimes but nothing special, I didn't want to make it akward since she has a bf and I am trying to make her monkey branch but I also want to make sure that she doesnt know where I stand. She keeps flirting, she definetley trusts me, but she didn't really make a move, sit on the couch with me or make it very clear that she has interest. Just plays and fun.

Then it was already 11.30 and she walked in at 6 and she is working as a professional at that moment so I just didnt pull the trigger to say hey lets have drinks on the couch now to make a move. She also said, well work is done, Im leaving.

One camera isnt installed yet, she couldnt finish it she claimed..... So she has to come back to my home again to finish that. She will come tommorow evening or saturday.

She grabbed her stuff and bailed without waiting for a hug, a kiss or a goodbye moment.

I am just not sure what to do at this point. What is your honest feeling about all this DJ's. I like her, she feels that also, she trusts me now I am very sure. I just know that with girls with boyfriends you cant play it agressive, they will most of the time freak out that's why I am doing this chill relaxed approach. She has to come to me!

What do you guys think about this?

Gambino just run game on her. Take your shot. Invite her over for drinks. If she declines. Say ok If you change your mind hit me up.
Leave the door open. She may hit you up when the bf gets old. Or in a fight

 

[CyrusTheGreat]

So if she repeatedly lies the guy that she has a boyfriend, but then she still hangs around him entirely out of her free will and then opens her legs for him, she will manage to use her lying as a successful defense in this imaginary court of justice? C'mon man.

Yes, that's how women operate. She will justify it in her mind by thinking she has mentioned that she has a boyfriend and if he tries to have sex with her (whether successful or not), she is not in fault, cause she has already acted "properly".

No person in his right mind is fooled by this and that's why I said she must be pretty messed up if she tricks herself with this kind of nonsense.

You're talking in men's language. That's not how women think and operate.

 

[pipeman84]

Yes, that's how women operate.

No, that's how hoes operate. Just think about what you're saying ... it would mean that if you have a woman, you can't let her out of the house because she would fvck any moron that hits on her. And if you find out, she'll say: but I told him I have a boyfriend. And you'll be like: oh, well, that's how women operate.

 

[NealIRC]

^ If she's a hoe, then sounds like she's available.