"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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need some help guys

AJ-47

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wats up folks. so this is my first post and i need some advice on wat to do with this chick.:confused:

so there's this girl that im hella into and i want to get to kno her to the point where i can make her my gf. I have her in 2 of my classes but its a different class everyday. she's a REALLY shy girl and has only had like 2 or 3 bfs in her life. im not really an afc cuz i use natural game and my confidence is through the roof(i dont think im the sh*t or anything). but this girl is really shy and i feel like my usual approaches wont work with her, i wanna connect wit her on a deeper level.

appreciate the help guy:D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You say you keep it natural so why not be natural with her? Your mind is just playing a trick on you. Your mind is telling you this is the best girl ever so you think you need to spit perfect, flawless game to get her when in reality you just need to be natural like you say you are. You just need self confidence(which you have) and be ballsy and she will be yours :)
 

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Show her how genuine you are, as she sees this her walls will break down.
You can connect with her on a deeper level after she sees your natural game.
by the way, you are the sh*t
 

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Alright I'll give it a try, thanks guys.
lol@ Hammertime.
 
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