"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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need some help guys

AJ-47

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wats up folks. so this is my first post and i need some advice on wat to do with this chick.:confused:

so there's this girl that im hella into and i want to get to kno her to the point where i can make her my gf. I have her in 2 of my classes but its a different class everyday. she's a REALLY shy girl and has only had like 2 or 3 bfs in her life. im not really an afc cuz i use natural game and my confidence is through the roof(i dont think im the sh*t or anything). but this girl is really shy and i feel like my usual approaches wont work with her, i wanna connect wit her on a deeper level.

appreciate the help guy:D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You say you keep it natural so why not be natural with her? Your mind is just playing a trick on you. Your mind is telling you this is the best girl ever so you think you need to spit perfect, flawless game to get her when in reality you just need to be natural like you say you are. You just need self confidence(which you have) and be ballsy and she will be yours :)
 

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Show her how genuine you are, as she sees this her walls will break down.
You can connect with her on a deeper level after she sees your natural game.
by the way, you are the sh*t
 

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Alright I'll give it a try, thanks guys.
lol@ Hammertime.
 
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