"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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need some help FAST!

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ok well im a tad socially awkward--a definite AFC trying to become a DJ. There's this one decently hot girl (HB6-7) in my school that me and my friends have been checkin out for a while. I'm the only one who has actually introduced myself to her and only got the confidence for that because she is a sophomore and I'm a senior. Me and my friends are making a funny movie for our English class and we want to get her to have a small role in it.

My friends all say i should ask i and i want to so that i can get an approach under my belt and some experience. I want to get her number and do the scene and then maybe go for pizza or something. got any tips about how to atleast get her to do the part without coming across as a complete creep? I've read through most of the bible and have been lurking for a few months.

I really need to get this girl to do this and it would be a nice boost to my confidence as well.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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this is a bit cheesy, but i think it'll work

you: hey (insert her name), me and my mate are filming this short film for english class, and we need a beautiful young girl to play (insert role), would you do us the honour? (this way she cannot decline because you make her sound like a liability)


and after shooting the scene or whatever, just tell her you'd like to buy her pizza for all her time

but what you could say without coming off as a weirdo would be

"yikes i'm famished, lets go grab a bite to eat at that new (insert interesting food type here) place.. my treat :)"

then read up the DJ bible and proceed from there.
 

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hmm that might work. for the creep/weirdo part i was referencing more to the making a movie thing. i'll give it a go though. she might go for it but i dont want to place her on a pedestal or anything like that.
 

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just go around filming **** and then as your doing it ask her when she is around. Say its all for fun. That way you were not "hunting her down" to be in the moive. it was just casual.
 

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hmm that would be optimal for not being a creepy fvcker, but we're not just gonna be randomly filming since we gotta get this **** filmed and done by two mondays from now.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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well just to add some closure to this. i got her and we'll be filmin on friday and then i'll take her for pizza or something
:D
 

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excellent. well done mate. all the best
 
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