"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ok well im a tad socially awkward--a definite AFC trying to become a DJ. There's this one decently hot girl (HB6-7) in my school that me and my friends have been checkin out for a while. I'm the only one who has actually introduced myself to her and only got the confidence for that because she is a sophomore and I'm a senior. Me and my friends are making a funny movie for our English class and we want to get her to have a small role in it.

My friends all say i should ask i and i want to so that i can get an approach under my belt and some experience. I want to get her number and do the scene and then maybe go for pizza or something. got any tips about how to atleast get her to do the part without coming across as a complete creep? I've read through most of the bible and have been lurking for a few months.

I really need to get this girl to do this and it would be a nice boost to my confidence as well.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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this is a bit cheesy, but i think it'll work

you: hey (insert her name), me and my mate are filming this short film for english class, and we need a beautiful young girl to play (insert role), would you do us the honour? (this way she cannot decline because you make her sound like a liability)


and after shooting the scene or whatever, just tell her you'd like to buy her pizza for all her time

but what you could say without coming off as a weirdo would be

"yikes i'm famished, lets go grab a bite to eat at that new (insert interesting food type here) place.. my treat :)"

then read up the DJ bible and proceed from there.
 
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hmm that might work. for the creep/weirdo part i was referencing more to the making a movie thing. i'll give it a go though. she might go for it but i dont want to place her on a pedestal or anything like that.
 
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just go around filming **** and then as your doing it ask her when she is around. Say its all for fun. That way you were not "hunting her down" to be in the moive. it was just casual.
 
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hmm that would be optimal for not being a creepy fvcker, but we're not just gonna be randomly filming since we gotta get this **** filmed and done by two mondays from now.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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well just to add some closure to this. i got her and we'll be filmin on friday and then i'll take her for pizza or something
:D
 
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excellent. well done mate. all the best
 
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