I just met this girl(it was a few weeks ago). When we first met, I didn't really think much about her. I though she was pretty, but I wasn't attracted to her. Then I started to get to know her. She's an amazing girl, and apparently thinks I'm hilarious. I just don't know what to do around her. The other day(Friday) she was staring at me. I could tell by looking at her she was expecting me to do/say something, but I was stuck. Eventualy, I just looked away, and she went off to talk to her friends. I have no idea what to do. I just can't stop thinking about her. Can anyone help me?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Need some help, any help I can get from anyone.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If you don't bother to ask, then it's already decided you will get a no. No approach, no success.Stuff64 said:
Us blokes are born with 2 nuts in between our legs for a reason. Sometimes we just gotta grab them and bloody well do what we have to.
Deep breaths, chin up high, and just go talk to her. If you don't act, you don't succeed. Simple.
She has given you IOI's, she wants you. Now go fulfill her sexual desires
Alright. Although I doubt she'll say yes, I'll try. Thanks.KillaCam said:If you don't bother to ask, then it's already decided you will get a no. No approach, no success.
Us blokes are born with 2 nuts in between our legs for a reason. Sometimes we just gotta grab them and bloody well do what we have to.
Deep breaths, chin up high, and just go talk to her. If you don't act, you don't succeed. Simple.
She has given you IOI's, she wants you. Now go fulfill her sexual desires
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That denotes another problem, AFC'ish behaviour, maybe a little bit of insercurity in the belief that you are good enough. Down the bottom of this page is a link called "The DJ Bible". I cannot stress enough just how valuable this resource is. There is a multitude of articles covering your kind of behaviour. Have a quick flick through some of those articles.Stuff64 said:
Your happiness is paramount. It's not selfish to look out for number #1. But anywho, i'm not a genius in this area, but those Bible articles are absolute gold.
Have a look, and if any other questions, don't hesitate to ask.
I can't download anything on this coumputer, and I won't be on one that I can download stuff for a few months. Is there a way to read it without any downloads?
How do I know how nice too nice is?Remember. DONT be to nice..
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
No need for downloads. It's merely just a page that links back to articles posted on this forum.
No need for downloads. It's merely just a page that links back to articles posted on this forum.
rowing_mike
Don Juan
Don't know about you, but I'm into that sort of stuff.