I just met this girl(it was a few weeks ago). When we first met, I didn't really think much about her. I though she was pretty, but I wasn't attracted to her. Then I started to get to know her. She's an amazing girl, and apparently thinks I'm hilarious. I just don't know what to do around her. The other day(Friday) she was staring at me. I could tell by looking at her she was expecting me to do/say something, but I was stuck. Eventualy, I just looked away, and she went off to talk to her friends. I have no idea what to do. I just can't stop thinking about her. Can anyone help me?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Need some help, any help I can get from anyone.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If you don't bother to ask, then it's already decided you will get a no. No approach, no success.Stuff64 said:
Us blokes are born with 2 nuts in between our legs for a reason. Sometimes we just gotta grab them and bloody well do what we have to.
Deep breaths, chin up high, and just go talk to her. If you don't act, you don't succeed. Simple.
She has given you IOI's, she wants you. Now go fulfill her sexual desires
Alright. Although I doubt she'll say yes, I'll try. Thanks.KillaCam said:If you don't bother to ask, then it's already decided you will get a no. No approach, no success.
Us blokes are born with 2 nuts in between our legs for a reason. Sometimes we just gotta grab them and bloody well do what we have to.
Deep breaths, chin up high, and just go talk to her. If you don't act, you don't succeed. Simple.
She has given you IOI's, she wants you. Now go fulfill her sexual desires
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That denotes another problem, AFC'ish behaviour, maybe a little bit of insercurity in the belief that you are good enough. Down the bottom of this page is a link called "The DJ Bible". I cannot stress enough just how valuable this resource is. There is a multitude of articles covering your kind of behaviour. Have a quick flick through some of those articles.Stuff64 said:
Your happiness is paramount. It's not selfish to look out for number #1. But anywho, i'm not a genius in this area, but those Bible articles are absolute gold.
Have a look, and if any other questions, don't hesitate to ask.
I can't download anything on this coumputer, and I won't be on one that I can download stuff for a few months. Is there a way to read it without any downloads?
How do I know how nice too nice is?Remember. DONT be to nice..
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
No need for downloads. It's merely just a page that links back to articles posted on this forum.
No need for downloads. It's merely just a page that links back to articles posted on this forum.
rowing_mike
Don Juan
Don't know about you, but I'm into that sort of stuff.