"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The other day I met this girl at the train station in my college, I was chillin waitin on the train smokin a fat blunt and just as I put it out and the train arrived she asked if I had a J that I would sell her. I was flat out but I took the chance to start talking with her, and found out alot about her, including she was only 1 stop before me. We transferred onto the other train and continued conversing for a while, she was showing good signs of attraction, lots of eye contact and smiles. A few minutes before she her stop she asked for my number, so she could try some of the skunky stuff sometime, but I am not into giving chicks my digits only so I got her number too. I gave her a call on the weekend and we had a 10min conversation (mostly on her as there is always more to know and she moved here from a different province). I asked her if she wanted to hookup wednesday (earlier tonight when I got off of school around 6) and we planned on shooting some pool or racin some go karts, I planned to do somethin fun and interactive. I called her when I was getting off of school, her dad picked up and said she was not in she just left to the doctor, he asked if I wanted to leave a message I just said I called and I will call her again when I got home. So I came home and was workin on a bit of homework when she called, a little over an hour after I first called her from school and she said sorry she missed my call earlier, she had to pickup her sister from work and she was feeling sick and had a bad headache (mabye since it has been 5 days since I first met her and the weather has been like -40*C (yes -40*F too!!!) since the weekend. She said she was really sorry and wanted to hookup on the weekend and hang out (that kind of got me wondering right there, I was thinkin more like goin out on a date but hey she might just want to take it ez), I said yea sounds cool, we can hookup and smoke some blunts and stuff. She asked about saturday and I said I had some plans and sunday afternoon would be better, so we agreed on that and she said for me to call her. What are some of your ideas what this gal is thinking and what are some things I can do to keep it cool, Id rather be with her than just be some buddy from around the way ya know... :confused:


FYI this chick is 24 and Im 20 so that might have somethin to do with it, shes living at home and even has a older sister, I dont know what older girls think of younger guys but Im pretty cool and straight forward so I hope things go well:(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You guys are going to make great smoking buddies:)
 

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Cant happen, I wont let any hoodrat smoke my stash until they are givin up the azz. Im still gonna try for it, what do u think?
 

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Bro sounds like everything is fine, but this girl definitely has a major interest in your weed. You better seduce the shiat outta her first and make sure she's digging you before you roll up fatties with her.



PIMP
 

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True that, I needed to hear that I was pondering on a few things myself. Now when she said "lets hang out this weekend" do you think I should goto her place (she lives wit family) or have her come to mine (i live alone :D ) or try to go do somethin chillin, like shootin pool etc, any ideas on my next move for the weekend? Mabye even blow her off, it seemed like she stood me up, her dad said she went to the Dr and she never even mentioned it....but she said she was sick, hell I tell that to my teachers all the time!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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