"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need some good good advice

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yea im a typical 17 teenager in high school ive been this site a few times its help ed me out wit women alot but i have a bit of a problem i cant do right things get a girl to acually like useally everyone just wants be my friend and stuff and it sucks havin a bunch of hot friends that are just friends so if someone could help me give me some advice that be cool and would help me alot if ya have AIM you could IM me on beachpimp89
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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pick one of ur hot friends but one ur not super close to
work on her until u score a date take it from there
its wat im doing at the momment actually
 

djweses89

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see thats problem need some help on that how to make that friend like me not as a friend but as like someone they like or just wanna screw or w/e
 

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Read threads.
Read bible.
Read the main site.


It's out there man.
 

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When you first met them were you escalating? Most people get stuck in that friend zone because they didn't establish early on that physical touch. You must get passed that obstacle as quick as possible or else you will just end up in the friend zone.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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well thats cool but wats some things i can do to break that friend zone easiest as possable and for anyone who thinks my questions are stupid ive read the articles all that i just need help on a personal level
 

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Read AS MUCH AS YOU CAN on kino and the differences between CONVERSATION and FLIRTING.
 
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