"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need some good good advice

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yea im a typical 17 teenager in high school ive been this site a few times its help ed me out wit women alot but i have a bit of a problem i cant do right things get a girl to acually like useally everyone just wants be my friend and stuff and it sucks havin a bunch of hot friends that are just friends so if someone could help me give me some advice that be cool and would help me alot if ya have AIM you could IM me on beachpimp89
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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pick one of ur hot friends but one ur not super close to
work on her until u score a date take it from there
its wat im doing at the momment actually
 

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see thats problem need some help on that how to make that friend like me not as a friend but as like someone they like or just wanna screw or w/e
 

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Read threads.
Read bible.
Read the main site.


It's out there man.
 

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When you first met them were you escalating? Most people get stuck in that friend zone because they didn't establish early on that physical touch. You must get passed that obstacle as quick as possible or else you will just end up in the friend zone.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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well thats cool but wats some things i can do to break that friend zone easiest as possable and for anyone who thinks my questions are stupid ive read the articles all that i just need help on a personal level
 

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Read AS MUCH AS YOU CAN on kino and the differences between CONVERSATION and FLIRTING.
 
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