"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need some good conversation topics/ help with my gab

damaster123

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Hey, I went out with this girl once last week, and it was all cool since we were new to each other, and I asked her basic stuff like, what she does for a living, where she's from, what you like to do on weekends. My problem is that I have trouble with conversation on the second dates. I'm pretty sure she's into me as she texted me and said she couldn't wait to hang out again. So can anyone give me some good convo pieces for the second go round, so it's not real awkward?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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damaster123

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Thanks I read that, but it didn't really hope on my subject per se, but I guess it did help me to notice what girls think about a second date
 
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the convo just comes naturally

if she into you, she'll make the conversation, dont trip....thats how ull know if they are interested, they'll ask questions bout u and ur fam and ur future
 
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