"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Need some good conversation topics/ help with my gab

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Hey, I went out with this girl once last week, and it was all cool since we were new to each other, and I asked her basic stuff like, what she does for a living, where she's from, what you like to do on weekends. My problem is that I have trouble with conversation on the second dates. I'm pretty sure she's into me as she texted me and said she couldn't wait to hang out again. So can anyone give me some good convo pieces for the second go round, so it's not real awkward?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thanks I read that, but it didn't really hope on my subject per se, but I guess it did help me to notice what girls think about a second date
 
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the convo just comes naturally

if she into you, she'll make the conversation, dont trip....thats how ull know if they are interested, they'll ask questions bout u and ur fam and ur future
 
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