"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Need some good conversation topics/ help with my gab

damaster123

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Hey, I went out with this girl once last week, and it was all cool since we were new to each other, and I asked her basic stuff like, what she does for a living, where she's from, what you like to do on weekends. My problem is that I have trouble with conversation on the second dates. I'm pretty sure she's into me as she texted me and said she couldn't wait to hang out again. So can anyone give me some good convo pieces for the second go round, so it's not real awkward?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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damaster123

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Thanks I read that, but it didn't really hope on my subject per se, but I guess it did help me to notice what girls think about a second date
 
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the convo just comes naturally

if she into you, she'll make the conversation, dont trip....thats how ull know if they are interested, they'll ask questions bout u and ur fam and ur future
 
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