Need some good advice, I think i ruined it.

[gimmeyofonenumba]

She is a co-worker, but like i said in another topic i think its cool cause she works on a whole different floor and im leaving in 2 weeks. My intent was to take this kinda thing slow and ask for a phone # or a date after real good rapport was est.

Anyways I walked in and on the way up the stairs she happened to be there, she lit up when she saw me, I made a funny statement made her laugh and got to work.

I was there all day and was very tired as i was leaving she was still there, but i just wasnt in the mood to really talk, but i felt i had to say something, so i said hey blah blah "you look tired". It like set her off, She replied with something like "you shouldnt say that to a girl you'll make them feel ugly" but said it in a tone like she was about to burst into tears. I was real pissed to even hear this since i didnt feel like talking in the 1st place. I said something like "well i feel tired" and i just walked away.

-honestly, i cant imagine myself talking to her again without her being pissed or something, what yall think? Should i say anything in particular if i ever see her again?

 

[AmIAFC]

I hear ya.

The co-worker I smashed did something that pissed me off and I made a very nasty remark before I left her alone. I called her back up the next day to apologize for my actions -- apologizing for something you know was wrong doesn't make you a chump -- and she lit up. She wants to go to the movies and have a drink.

Whether I LJBF'd myself or whatever is irrelevant, because I sexed that and plus I think she's a cool/genuine person who I like to be around.

I don't think you said or did anything wrong. Give it time, and maybe she'll come around and realize how silly she was being.

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

Alright, So you think i should apologize? i feel like i did something wrong, but dont really have anything to apologize for i mean seriously, I barely even know her, its unsual for emotions to be this high early on. I dont wanna wait for her to come around, and the way she seems to be, I dont think she ever will.

 

[AmIAFC]

Originally posted by gimmeyofonenumba
Alright, So you think i should apologize? i feel like i did something wrong, but dont really have anything to apologize for i mean seriously, I barely even know her, its unsual for emotions to be this high early on. I dont wanna wait for her to come around, and the way she seems to be, I dont think she ever will.

No, assess the situation carefully. I really think she was being ridiculous, because you didn't say anything negative about her, nor was it your intention to do so. I think she knows that.

 

[flexion_]

Get her phone number and start this over when you aren't working there anymore. Call her up and ask her out in 2 weeks.

The whole "work" atmosphere is affecting things. Its not hard to wait two weeks.