Dhoulmagus
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Sick of this state and it takes quite a bit of energy to keep my sanity. Sometimes I have points where I feel like I'm about to turn feral. Am I going to make it?!?!?!?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Need some encouragement please :)
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
CaptainSaveAh0
Don Juan
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Move then.... Make some goals and make a plan and stick to it.
Mike32ct
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If you can't move or transfer, at least take one trip per year. Get laid on vacation or a cruise or something like that. You need some "strange" from a different area.
After you bhang her, get her mom's # and text it to me LOL.
After you bhang her, get her mom's # and text it to me LOL.