Dhoulmagus
Banned
- Joined
- Sep 11, 2013
- Messages
- 1,695
- Reaction score
- 169
Sick of this state and it takes quite a bit of energy to keep my sanity. Sometimes I have points where I feel like I'm about to turn feral. Am I going to make it?!?!?!?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Need some encouragement please :)
- Thread starter Dhoulmagus
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
CaptainSaveAh0
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 31, 2013
- Messages
- 166
- Reaction score
- 11
Move then.... Make some goals and make a plan and stick to it.
Mike32ct
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 22, 2007
- Messages
- 8,410
- Reaction score
- 5,174
If you can't move or transfer, at least take one trip per year. Get laid on vacation or a cruise or something like that. You need some "strange" from a different area.
After you bhang her, get her mom's # and text it to me LOL.
After you bhang her, get her mom's # and text it to me LOL.