"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SemperFi719

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Alright guys, here's the story.
There's this girl I know. She has been showing buying signals for a while now. Today I was DJing her and I kid you not she was all over me. She had me pinned against my locker telling me that I just had to stay with her. I manage to get away and go talk to some friends (this is in school.) When I would look in her direction she would be glancing at me whenever I would look at her. And when I went into the auditorium for a rehearsal for a school thing she was there and was looking at me constantly. I remained a challenge all throughout and didnt let her "get me" so to speak. This isnt a "does she like me" post because its pretty obvious by what her behavior towards me. What should I do next? She strikes my fancy and I'd like to get to know her better but I wanna know how I should go about doing things before asking her for a date. Kino, neg-hits, what next. We had some kino today, more than usual thats when I noticed that she was all over me. I know methods that work, but I wanna know how I should use them because I don't wanna use them inproperly and end off lowering her already high IL.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kraken

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Next time you have a chat with her, get her number. Don't call her for a few days, and in the meanwhile, stay c/f, and keep that kino going.

When you do call her, set up a date. Don't let her try to speed seduce you with her actions, you should act indifferent and play hard to get, while still showing her the attractive qualities that are making her wild for you right now.

You're in the driver seat right now. Keep it that way.
 
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