"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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anonymousguy

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Ok, I know I've been here a lot and reading for a long time. I've made some progress but this case drives me nuts.

Short story: I went on a vacation for one week and I met a pretty girl(We'll call her "Sarah") through a friend of mine. It was obvious Sarah liked me, but then the vacation was over and I didn't see her for 2 weeks. When my friends told we should see some vacation photos I saw her again. Unfortunately I was tired because I had worked 12 hours straight and didn't talk a lot to her.
I don't have her number so I sent her a few emails and added her on IM. Yesterday I saw her online, but she was "away". Thus I knew she read my email but she didn't reply it.

What does it mean? We had a vibe during holidays and now she's cold again? I need some opinions to avoid getting "clingy". Guess contacting by sending emails/IM doesn't work?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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bahh - you still have a lot to learn...

I can also tell you dont have enough going on in your own personal life if your busy worrying over this.....
 
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Don't worry yet. I have 5-10 emails I haven't answered to from people who's good friends of mind - and I almost never write back when I get a text message - Simply because I don't have the time.


Think about it: She could have logged in to her email account just to see if she had any new messages and then just quickly read yours. If she's interested she'll probably write you back -

But, don't push it. Give it some time man. And, find a couple of other girls while you're waiting.
 
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