"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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anonymousguy

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Ok, I know I've been here a lot and reading for a long time. I've made some progress but this case drives me nuts.

Short story: I went on a vacation for one week and I met a pretty girl(We'll call her "Sarah") through a friend of mine. It was obvious Sarah liked me, but then the vacation was over and I didn't see her for 2 weeks. When my friends told we should see some vacation photos I saw her again. Unfortunately I was tired because I had worked 12 hours straight and didn't talk a lot to her.
I don't have her number so I sent her a few emails and added her on IM. Yesterday I saw her online, but she was "away". Thus I knew she read my email but she didn't reply it.

What does it mean? We had a vibe during holidays and now she's cold again? I need some opinions to avoid getting "clingy". Guess contacting by sending emails/IM doesn't work?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bahh - you still have a lot to learn...

I can also tell you dont have enough going on in your own personal life if your busy worrying over this.....
 
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Don't worry yet. I have 5-10 emails I haven't answered to from people who's good friends of mind - and I almost never write back when I get a text message - Simply because I don't have the time.


Think about it: She could have logged in to her email account just to see if she had any new messages and then just quickly read yours. If she's interested she'll probably write you back -

But, don't push it. Give it some time man. And, find a couple of other girls while you're waiting.
 
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