"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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need some cold approach help quickly..

soFakingEmi

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Soo first post hahaha..

On tuesday its a big athletics meeting for our school (roughly 16 schools)
16 schools = plenty of HB's what advice could you guys give me with say the cold approach
Neg's and so forth..especially with athletic/sporty girls as that's not really my scene..
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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if a girl looks good I would neg her by asking her something like

hey you must play softball

or

can you give me some workout tips? your legs look really strong (subtle, ambiguous neg)

or after building some rapport

oh you go to (whatever school), not sure we can be friends anymore.

stupid **** like that. just joke around and have fun, youll be ok
 

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How bout "hey where are all the pretty girls?"haha ...I'M KIDDING!!

A good cold approach on that environment is an obersavational opener. But make it unique..."hey I notice you're the only girl here that has a great big adams apple" lol again kidding....but observe something unique about her & ask her about it. Or open up a group with an opinion opener. "Do you girls think its wrong for a guy to still go out with a girl after realizing she's friends with his ex"
Only use cheesy s*it like that if ur really stumped & hve serious approach anxiety. Otherwise just be yourself & open up a convo..."Hey what's up, what sports r u interested in most, what school do u go to, etc
 
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