"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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need some cold approach help quickly..

soFakingEmi

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Soo first post hahaha..

On tuesday its a big athletics meeting for our school (roughly 16 schools)
16 schools = plenty of HB's what advice could you guys give me with say the cold approach
Neg's and so forth..especially with athletic/sporty girls as that's not really my scene..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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if a girl looks good I would neg her by asking her something like

hey you must play softball

or

can you give me some workout tips? your legs look really strong (subtle, ambiguous neg)

or after building some rapport

oh you go to (whatever school), not sure we can be friends anymore.

stupid **** like that. just joke around and have fun, youll be ok
 

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How bout "hey where are all the pretty girls?"haha ...I'M KIDDING!!

A good cold approach on that environment is an obersavational opener. But make it unique..."hey I notice you're the only girl here that has a great big adams apple" lol again kidding....but observe something unique about her & ask her about it. Or open up a group with an opinion opener. "Do you girls think its wrong for a guy to still go out with a girl after realizing she's friends with his ex"
Only use cheesy s*it like that if ur really stumped & hve serious approach anxiety. Otherwise just be yourself & open up a convo..."Hey what's up, what sports r u interested in most, what school do u go to, etc
 
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