"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need some advice

baddfishh40

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I met this girl about two weeks ago and I've hung out with her like 3 or 4 times. Over the weekend she was out of town with her friend and texted me at least 50 times and kept calling me asking me if I was hanging out with any girls and that she wasn't doing anything with any guys so I shouldn't do anything with any girls....... It is waaayyy too early for her to expect me to not see other girls. She kept telling me to call her but I really didn't have time to just talk and I really felt we were talking enough as it was.

She is absolutely obsessed. I really want to continue hanging out with her but she is trying to tie me down and I'm not about to put myself in a situation like that right now, especially since I don't even know her all that well. Now she is pissed off about the whole thing and she thinks I'm using her, but I really do enjoy her company. So my question is, should I just sit back and let it ride out or should I tell her straight up that I want to hang out with her but I really think she should give me some space?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mak23

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Hang out with her and see where it goes nothing bad can come out of that, if you begin to really like her, you wont care about her being obsessive. You know if you ever start dating youll have complete control and shell be doing w/e you say.
 

Arioch

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I wouldn't recommend what mak23 says.

Really, I'd just say next her. It already sounds like she's trying to give you too much of the company you claim to like.

If you really, really like this girl, tell her that she's going too fast and that you need more space, and that you wouldn't be asking if you didn't really like her (because you wouldn't! you'd next the sh*t out of her, right?). If she complies, great. If she gives you any more sh*t, YOU MUST NEXT HER.
 

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I'd suggest a next here. Too much maintenance required.
 
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