"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Need some advice
- Thread starter zolo
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I decided to tell my girl about it.
She then goes on to tell me that her and her roomate have had 3ways with other guys before, so maybe her roomate thought nothing of it.
She also told me that she didn't want to do that with me and her because she really liked me, and did not want to complicate things. (I didn't even bring up the 3 way thing, she just admitted to it)
So I guess I got two options
#1 Be happy my girl likes me and leave well enough lone
#2 Go bang the hell out of her hot roomate and next the two sluts
What do you thimk?
She spent the night, and sure as **** my girl shows up at my place at around 12:00 this afternoon (as planned by me) none other than to find me answering the door in my underware and her roomate sleeping in my bed naked.
She got pissed left, I went back into the bedroom gave her roomie another shot then kicked her ass out.
I am free to DJ again
