"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Need some advice
- Thread starter zolo
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I decided to tell my girl about it.
She then goes on to tell me that her and her roomate have had 3ways with other guys before, so maybe her roomate thought nothing of it.
She also told me that she didn't want to do that with me and her because she really liked me, and did not want to complicate things. (I didn't even bring up the 3 way thing, she just admitted to it)
So I guess I got two options
#1 Be happy my girl likes me and leave well enough lone
#2 Go bang the hell out of her hot roomate and next the two sluts
What do you thimk?
She spent the night, and sure as **** my girl shows up at my place at around 12:00 this afternoon (as planned by me) none other than to find me answering the door in my underware and her roomate sleeping in my bed naked.
She got pissed left, I went back into the bedroom gave her roomie another shot then kicked her ass out.
I am free to DJ again
