"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don_Jon

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I met this girl, introduced my self and did everything right..got the number, the only problem is she lives 45 minutes away, and for the most part all we can do is talk over the phone, when i call her. We have plans for kingsdominion with a group of friends but I wanna keep the flow of things goin where im talkin to her pretty often. But again its over the phone and i'm not sure how i would handle it, cuz i tend to lose thought of what to say. Any help would be appreciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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italostud

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Find a girl that lives closer. Seriously, IMO, the long distance thing is a waste of time and resources.
 

Don_Jon

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oh believe me ive been lookin for girls that live closer, but this girl is different, cuz its like i have a clean slate, chance to start right from the beggining, i live in a small town so mosta the girls round here i already know but am not interested in.
 

italostud

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Ahh, I see. Small towns can be rough for meeting new people. But, I see your age, 15. How do you two intend to see eachother?
 

Don_Jon

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Shes 16 so im pretty sure she is drivin, and i have a good amount of older friends and my cousin is up almost every weekend, so gettin somewhere or meeting up isnt really a problem...i'd say im pretty fortunate to have people who can hook me up with rides.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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