Im am a junior in high school. This girl is like an 8 or 9, and her locker is right next to mine. My best friend is dating her best friend and they were all hanging out and the subject of me came up. She must have said that she wanted to talk to me but was to nervous or something becuase my friend ame up to me the next day and told me to go talk to her. Well my question is what should I do about it. I am a little affraid to start a conversation with her because I dont know what she likes. I do know however that she is a cheerleader, if that helps. So I am asking all of you to suggest some ways that I could talk to her.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Need some advice.
- Thread starter ActorMan
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Whatever way you feel comfortable with man. Everyone here can suggest some topic or another, some opening line or another, but if you come off as being uncomfortable or unnatural, she'll notice and it'll tell her that you're nervous and what not. I'm assuming that this girl is probably the first girl that you're trying to pick up. It is extremely tough to approach girls when you have no experience or if you don't talk to stangers easily. Don't worry if she tells you LJBF. It's all a learning experience. You get better at it as you go along. If you strike gold the first time, you're extremely lucky man.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Moved to High School...
SomeRandomGuy
Don Juan
Well...your never going to find if she likes you or not without talking to her. So make it easier for your self and go talk to her, every day that passes will make it worst so go now while you can. Also if she did say something like that to your friend then your already closer than an average guy, in other words you have some at your favor so id say just go and start with a casual hi and pick up with anything that pops ups in your mind. Remember your not trying to win her over your just trying to see if she’s your type so make it more of a trying to find out rather than a trying to make you like me.
Good Luck Man
Good Luck Man
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The-Sultan
Don Juan
Re: Thanks a lot
good luckOriginally posted by ActorMan
Hey, thanks alot guys, i think i'll try talking to her tomorrow. wish me luck