"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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teedo

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see. theres this girl i went out with for a while. but she started to say that she really loved and she wanted to be with me forever. i didnt share these feelings, so i guess i started acting like an ******* and eventually i broke up with her. her friend said she took it really hard. this was around 3 months ago. but last week her friend told me that she really missed me. so i went out with her, we went to a movie, and we ****ed around a bit. im gonna go out wit her again tonite, and i think she wants a relationship again. but i think that she was being a slut after i broke up wit her. and i dont wanna go out wit a slut. so, i guess i got two questions 1) how can i find out if she was being a slut? (shes a little younger than me and goes to a diff school, so i wudnt hear any stories bout this) 2) should i jus keep gettin ***** from her, and if so, how can i keep her thinking that i like her without having another relationship? (i dont know if this made any sense at all)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Supero Masculus

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Im sorry man, but it really didn't make much sense. Wish i could help.
 

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hmmm, im tryin to make sense out of it. Lets see, did you actually hear about her bein a slut? or did you just assume she was? From what I can tell, this will be a long distance relationship if you all were to get back together. If you do happen to find out she was bein a slut, do not go back out with her. Because if you all do a long distance relationship, she is still gonna be a slut and youll never know about it. If not though, date her again dude. From what it sounded like, the girl had a really high IL in you
 

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If you're really interested, then go out with her. But like he said, if she is a slut, you probably wont ever know about it since she does go to another school. I'm kinda talkin to a girl right now and I'm kinda in the same situation :/
 

Supero Masculus

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Dude, your not gonna find out if she's a slut unless you closely observe her. Your not going to find out through anybody else cuase they could be lying and you might be ruining something awsome based on what other people have said. You should go for her and if she seems like a slut then kick her ass out of oyur life and forget about her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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