see. theres this girl i went out with for a while. but she started to say that she really loved and she wanted to be with me forever. i didnt share these feelings, so i guess i started acting like an ******* and eventually i broke up with her. her friend said she took it really hard. this was around 3 months ago. but last week her friend told me that she really missed me. so i went out with her, we went to a movie, and we ****ed around a bit. im gonna go out wit her again tonite, and i think she wants a relationship again. but i think that she was being a slut after i broke up wit her. and i dont wanna go out wit a slut. so, i guess i got two questions 1) how can i find out if she was being a slut? (shes a little younger than me and goes to a diff school, so i wudnt hear any stories bout this) 2) should i jus keep gettin ***** from her, and if so, how can i keep her thinking that i like her without having another relationship? (i dont know if this made any sense at all)
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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