Need some advice

[DonBud94]

Lately I been thinking about pursuing a girl that called it quits about a year ago I'm stuck weather should I or should I not I can't get her out of my head for some darn reason I need someone to talk me out of it haha naw but I would like to hear some stories where any of you had pursued a girl in a situation like mine and how it went.

 

[darksprezzatura]

The best way to pursue a girl you used to hang out with is to first explore a lot of options, sleep with a bunch of girls.

If at that point of time she STILL comes into your mind, go shoot her a text, it’s low investment and you won’t be bothered by the outcome.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I don't think it's possible to get a women back once she completely loses interest, at least not directly. Maybe you can initiate a conversation but do not chase or ask her out. Ideally, just don't do anything and maybe she'll come around. If not, it's honestly not even worth it even if you do change her mind.

 

[DonBud94]

I hear what both y'all saying appreciate the advice fellas.

 

[Macadellic]

The following has worked for me in the past.

You have to let a period of time pass where she doesn’t see you, hear about you (9-12months).

When you do reappear there has to be something different about you. You lost weight, gained muscle, have a new career, picked up an exciting hobby you are passionate about, etc.

She has to see that you have improved yourself.
And you did this of your own accord, not to get back with her.

 

[manfrombelow]

Lately I been thinking about pursuing a girl that called it quits about a year ago

You simply *DON'T* chase after anyone that doesn't want you. Period.

 

[DonBud94]

You simply *DON'T* chase after anyone that doesn't want you. Period.

So don't pursue and forget about her and find me a new girl is what you are saying, gotcha;]