"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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spinninplates

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So a quick background: This tuesday
Me and one of my college friends were talking about of one the cutest girls in the class. We were trying to figure out where she was from because shes always calling out answers and we could tell she had a slight accent. He thought she was spanish, I said no way. So as we're walking out of class I ask her whatsup and where shes from. She was really receptive and open to conversation. Turns out shes wasn't spanish but greek, which happens to be my language(what are the chances?). So we start talking and before she leaves the building I told her we should get together and study for the final before the semesters over. After I saved her number, I told her goodbye and that I'd text her later. She said "no text me now, i wanna save it" and told me how she was happy to meet me and then we both parted ways.
Thursday-
Im walking with friend out of class again, and he sees one of his friends and leaves me hanging. Out of the corner of my eye I see the same girl from tuesday. I ask her how her days going and she tells me that shes pretty tired but shes glad that the weekends coming around because she has nothing to do. So i tell her we should get together. I was planning on taking her out to the club but shes only 20 (im 21). So i told her that i would text her later that day once i thought of something to do. She leaves and im thnking to myself, damn this is going pretty well. then Thursday night comes along
Thursday night-
So around 9 oclock I try calling her but she doesnt pick up. She texts me 15 minutes later and tells me that everyone in her house is sleeping and she cant talk on the phone. I was out with my brother so i text her an hour later telling her that I just wanted to know if she was down to cruise by the beach one day over the weekend. I stay up late waiting for a text back but figured she fell asleep and would get back to me in the morning. She still hasnt responded. How would you guys go about the situation ? Drop her, or text her again ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lizardking82

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1) ALWAYS REMEMBER: she was acting all feminine and girly when she said "no text me now, I wanna save it" and seemed willing AT THAT MOMENT IN TIME. They work based on feelings so next time she was in a different mood and reacted differently. Keep this in mind as it will help you take women easier knowing that their feelings and what they "think" fluctuates from a thousand factors LOL

You don't contact her anymore, anyhow. If you hit her up in school accidentally, you act cool, say "hey, how's it goin'", make small talk and LEAVE THE SCENE, OP. I repeat OP: LEAVE THE SCENE. You DO NOT tell her **** like "hey, where have you been?" or "hey, why didn't you answer" and most importantly, OP, you do not invite her to go out again in no kind of situation. The invitation this time HAS to come from her. If it does and you're still in the mood for it and available, you accept.

Otherwise, start looking at other targets. You are unsure because you're not in abundance. Would you feel like this if you had 4 other dates lined up? Probably not. Would you feel like this if your life was exciting and you were working towards your goals? Probably not. You get my point.
 

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You asked her to get together and she didn't respond. Wait until next Wednesday and send her a "hey what's up" text.

Don't reach out again until then or you'll look desperate. If you reach out next Wednesday and she doesn't respond or commit to meeting, delete her number.

I suggest Wednesday so there is still time to set something up for next weekend.
 

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Women that are really interested don't act like this. It is likely you never REALLY had a chance. You would have found out sooner if instead of suggesting you guys maybe get together and study for finals, you asked her out. She knew you liked her... and yet you didn't go for it.

Always remember chicks always know when you like them, and you look weak if you do not go for what you want. Just ask her out.... let her reject you if she isn't interested and then put it behind you and go after other girls.
 

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I'm just gonna text her next week and ask her if she wants to study. Then take things from there
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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