SoSuaveDude
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Okay, so this girl goes to my church, and we were quite intimate last year, but in the past few months, her interest level has died down, and i can tell she's tried other guys. However, last week she spontaneously approached me and says that she bout me valentines day gifts and wants me to come over sometime during the week. She claimed she would cook for me etc. At this point im thinking she has a personality disorder lol, but i tread with low expectations anyway.
We schedule a day, and i text her the day of the "date" and she's responsive and whatnot. However, as time passes, she does not call me and tell me that she's out of school so i can get her like she mutually agreed to, so i give her a ring twice and there's no response. She apparently flaked on me. Sunday comes and I see her at church. She rushes to talk to me and tell me that she was kicked out of her dorm due to a financial hold. "I say oh really, well why didn't you call me and tell me what was up. I literally made arrangements for us?" I said you practically stood me, and she said "i guess."
Then she says sorry and that we can still hang out with her if I want to. The way she words this makes it seem like i'm a "burden" to her and her schedule. Like she has no interest in getting together and it's an inconvenience. It was hard, but I refuse and say we don't have to, and she goes on her way. After service she tries to hover around me, but i remain nonchalant about her presence.
Did i do the right thing, or do you guys think i should have given her another try? Might be me, but i refuse to become a lenient pushover who she fails to respect. Can't make her feel like she owns me. She seems like a confirmed attention wh0re based on our past intimacy imo.
And also, how can i fully move on considering that i'll see her in church? Is there anyway I can make her feel like she missed out on something great? I ask this, because I currently feel like she "won," but I want the last laugh lol. thanks brahs.
We schedule a day, and i text her the day of the "date" and she's responsive and whatnot. However, as time passes, she does not call me and tell me that she's out of school so i can get her like she mutually agreed to, so i give her a ring twice and there's no response. She apparently flaked on me. Sunday comes and I see her at church. She rushes to talk to me and tell me that she was kicked out of her dorm due to a financial hold. "I say oh really, well why didn't you call me and tell me what was up. I literally made arrangements for us?" I said you practically stood me, and she said "i guess."
Then she says sorry and that we can still hang out with her if I want to. The way she words this makes it seem like i'm a "burden" to her and her schedule. Like she has no interest in getting together and it's an inconvenience. It was hard, but I refuse and say we don't have to, and she goes on her way. After service she tries to hover around me, but i remain nonchalant about her presence.
Did i do the right thing, or do you guys think i should have given her another try? Might be me, but i refuse to become a lenient pushover who she fails to respect. Can't make her feel like she owns me. She seems like a confirmed attention wh0re based on our past intimacy imo.
And also, how can i fully move on considering that i'll see her in church? Is there anyway I can make her feel like she missed out on something great? I ask this, because I currently feel like she "won," but I want the last laugh lol. thanks brahs.
