Alright so i'm a sophmore in high school and i've been improving with this site. However, I just realized something. If i'm talking with a girl who I know I wouldn't want to go out with/has a boyfriend/i'm not interested, i'm 100% fine and can easily flirt/joke around with them. But if it's a cute girl or a girl i'd like to actually go out with, I tense up and get all nervous. Do you guys have any advice on how I can get over this?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Need Some Advice
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