Alright so i'm a sophmore in high school and i've been improving with this site. However, I just realized something. If i'm talking with a girl who I know I wouldn't want to go out with/has a boyfriend/i'm not interested, i'm 100% fine and can easily flirt/joke around with them. But if it's a cute girl or a girl i'd like to actually go out with, I tense up and get all nervous. Do you guys have any advice on how I can get over this?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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