"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Just a little background info.

I'm Male 22 years old. Started College a year ago. I've been with a couple of girls, but not as many as I would want too (I'm sure everyone is in this same position, heh). Before coming into College I was in rehab. Before rehab my #1 priority was to party my second was probably to get girls, which I really didn't get many. Now that I'm clean/sober I haven't hooked up with any chicks from college (I thought it was going to be a piece of cake, but if you don't do sh*t to get them I'm sure they won't come to you). I'm somewhat introverted, lack some social skills, but I'm not 100% quite all the time. I try to talk to people once in a while.

I have some questions...

How important is your physical appearance? I was in OK shape when I started college but I've gained some 15-20 pounds since I came. I'm trying to get fit right now, but should I wait until I get fit to start trying to hook up with girls?

Something that I really don't know how to do is get a girl interested in me. How can I do that? Most of the girls I've hooked up in the past took the initiative, and I just followed. How can I get her to keep talking to me or interested in me? Any suggestions? I'm sure you need some sort of "hook" to lure her, and to keep her from wanting more of you..

I'd appreciate any suggestions...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Oh yeah another thing is that since I'm in college and away from home I won't have a car until January. Should this slow me down? I'm sure it shouldn't but what could I do with a girl around my school's dorms? Any suggestions? If it's hard already to set up a date... it'd be much harder to say "pick me up as well", don't you guys think?
 
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NO.


It sounds like you lack confidence.


Why put yourself above AFCs, other newbies. . . It serves no purpose to you. Admit you have a problem with women. You've been to rehab, you probably know that's step 1.

Start from scratch at this point.

There DJ Bible at the bottom. also plenty of information at www.sosuave.net ... Mystery's book, David DeAngelo's books... You name it.

Material is one. Then you gotta go out and practice it. Reading alone will teach 1% of all things, practice is the other 99%... Lucky you in college. You can practice from 6 in th emorning to 12 at night.
 
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