"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just a little background info.

I'm Male 22 years old. Started College a year ago. I've been with a couple of girls, but not as many as I would want too (I'm sure everyone is in this same position, heh). Before coming into College I was in rehab. Before rehab my #1 priority was to party my second was probably to get girls, which I really didn't get many. Now that I'm clean/sober I haven't hooked up with any chicks from college (I thought it was going to be a piece of cake, but if you don't do sh*t to get them I'm sure they won't come to you). I'm somewhat introverted, lack some social skills, but I'm not 100% quite all the time. I try to talk to people once in a while.

I have some questions...

How important is your physical appearance? I was in OK shape when I started college but I've gained some 15-20 pounds since I came. I'm trying to get fit right now, but should I wait until I get fit to start trying to hook up with girls?

Something that I really don't know how to do is get a girl interested in me. How can I do that? Most of the girls I've hooked up in the past took the initiative, and I just followed. How can I get her to keep talking to me or interested in me? Any suggestions? I'm sure you need some sort of "hook" to lure her, and to keep her from wanting more of you..

I'd appreciate any suggestions...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Oh yeah another thing is that since I'm in college and away from home I won't have a car until January. Should this slow me down? I'm sure it shouldn't but what could I do with a girl around my school's dorms? Any suggestions? If it's hard already to set up a date... it'd be much harder to say "pick me up as well", don't you guys think?
 
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NO.


It sounds like you lack confidence.


Why put yourself above AFCs, other newbies. . . It serves no purpose to you. Admit you have a problem with women. You've been to rehab, you probably know that's step 1.

Start from scratch at this point.

There DJ Bible at the bottom. also plenty of information at www.sosuave.net ... Mystery's book, David DeAngelo's books... You name it.

Material is one. Then you gotta go out and practice it. Reading alone will teach 1% of all things, practice is the other 99%... Lucky you in college. You can practice from 6 in th emorning to 12 at night.
 
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