"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Need some advice---she contacted me after I told her...

BackInTheGame78

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Had a potential date set up with this woman that had initial high IL, had a date set up, son ended up getting concussion while playing football and she was giving me wishy washy answers about going on the date, so I told her it was cool and that I had already made other plans...

Then she got mad and told me "I was harsh", etc

Told her I wasn't being harsh, but that I was busy and that she never gave me a straight answer when I asked. Went back and forth for a little bit about it(I know I shouldn't have engaged her with this), and she agreed that we could do something next week. Next week came and she claims son was still dealing with concussion issues and now her daughter had hurt her knee so she was between working two jobs and going back and forth to the doctors with them and it was kind of crazy for her.

So i told her that she should get back to me when things got a little less crazy for her and that if I was still single at that point we might be able to do something. Got no response from that.

This was about a week ago...out of the blue she texts me today
"That sounds good, things are winding down here. I hope you are well".

Response? Ignore it? Her way of saying she wants to do something? OR just seeing if I am going to jump at it?

Be clear that I don't really care if I meet up with her or not, more of wanting to learn how to turn situations like these into my favor for the future, and how to play things right...using this as more of a learning experience
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GS750

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Ahhh the "hope you are well" text/breadcrumb/ping text. Text back "doing great, thanks". Wait a few hours before your reply. See if she initiates again. Sounds like her interest is lukewarm at best.
 
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