LetsGetAway
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I'm just going to try and make a long-ish story as short as possible and, hopefully after that, one of you guys can give me some advice.
The Situation:
I met this chick about three weeks ago online and it took a couple days, but I felt like we built a connection fairly easily. The whole time we spent talking to each other consisted of flirting, playful teasing etc. Basically, we just had fun with it.
She actually lives in a different province than I do (Yes, I'm Canadian!) so whatever relationship we sort of built over the last few weeks is limited to talking on the phone/texting.
Unfortunately, a couple days ago she called me and told me that she will no longer be getting online because a relative basically took away her means of doing so. She definitely sounded upset and she sent me texts shortly after using words such as 'heartbroken', 'upset' etc.
So here's my dilemma:
It's been nearly two days since she broke the news and I haven't heard from her since. I haven't called or texted her either for multiple reasons (good and bad). Now I'm stuck wondering what I should do.
The chance of us ever having a real relationship is slim because of the distance between us, but I actually like her and I think, worst case scenario, she could be someone that I could have a good friendship with.
For the record, I'm not desperate... I can find a girl quite easily. It's just that, I literally haven't felt this way about anyone since I got out of my last serious relationship (which ended with my heart being broken) and the fact that it's someone I met online just makes me want to fight for it even more.
Conclusion:
I don't know what to do at this point, honestly. Should I pursue this? Should I wait a couple more days to see if she contacts me or am I just chasing my tail?
Hopefully someone can give me some helpful advice.
(PS. I'm 20 years old and she is several years older than I am)
The Situation:
I met this chick about three weeks ago online and it took a couple days, but I felt like we built a connection fairly easily. The whole time we spent talking to each other consisted of flirting, playful teasing etc. Basically, we just had fun with it.
She actually lives in a different province than I do (Yes, I'm Canadian!) so whatever relationship we sort of built over the last few weeks is limited to talking on the phone/texting.
Unfortunately, a couple days ago she called me and told me that she will no longer be getting online because a relative basically took away her means of doing so. She definitely sounded upset and she sent me texts shortly after using words such as 'heartbroken', 'upset' etc.
So here's my dilemma:
It's been nearly two days since she broke the news and I haven't heard from her since. I haven't called or texted her either for multiple reasons (good and bad). Now I'm stuck wondering what I should do.
The chance of us ever having a real relationship is slim because of the distance between us, but I actually like her and I think, worst case scenario, she could be someone that I could have a good friendship with.
For the record, I'm not desperate... I can find a girl quite easily. It's just that, I literally haven't felt this way about anyone since I got out of my last serious relationship (which ended with my heart being broken) and the fact that it's someone I met online just makes me want to fight for it even more.
Conclusion:
I don't know what to do at this point, honestly. Should I pursue this? Should I wait a couple more days to see if she contacts me or am I just chasing my tail?
Hopefully someone can give me some helpful advice.
(PS. I'm 20 years old and she is several years older than I am)
