"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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need some advice.. pls

neonlimited

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this kid that is kind of my friend is an idiot with girls, but SOMEHOW he has an amazingly hot g/f, but he is such a moron, he doesnt know what the hell hes doing, (example : he wont flirtwith her at PERFECT times or cuddle with her at perfect times or kiss her at perfect times, and she is really sad about it) well ive been talking to her about it a little, but how do i use my friends flaw as an advantage to maybe score some points with this girl?

thanks

and pls dont tell me blah blah he is ur friend u shudnt do that cuz he isnt really a friend of mine
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your friend does not have flaws. He isn't giving her everything she wants when she wants it. He is being a challenge, which actually makes her want him even more.
 
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your friend has no idea how to handle girls! I can't believe you know such an AFC.

what's your girlfriend's name again?
 

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no 'heyhey' ur wrong, u dont know the kid, he asks me why HIS gf is sad, and she tells me because he doesnt give her enough attention... he doesnt know wut the hell he is doing dude
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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And who are you to listen to her complaints about her boyfriend? Are you her therapist?
And what is about coudling and kissing at perfect times? What are the perfect times? Are perfect for her? For her boyfriend? Would you take advantage of all perfect times according to her? Are you sure you know the theory well enough?

Maybe you have to look again the bible and the articles. Especialy the part about conversation and the part about challenge. I don't know much about your friend but from what you provide i can see someone who is in the right track to be a natural. Maybe you can learn something from him.
 

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he is your friend and... oops.... you already said it for me...

Originally posted by neonlimited
he is ur friend u shudnt do that



but seriously now, who are you to call someone an AFC? You dont have a girlfriend. correction: or know how to get a girlfriend.
 
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I don't have a girlfriend, I call people AFCs.
 

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Originally posted by neonlimited
its HIS gf.. her name is jessica
lol, a) maybe she doesnt want her name on an internet forum

b) he was taking the piss, saying you dont have a gf and are sucking up to a bros gf and then calling him (the guy with a gf), an afc.

c) the blokes got the right tactics, the times are perfect for the girl, but not for him, keep a little excitement in there

d)welcome and you have a long way to go young padawan
 
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