"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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need some advice.. pls

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this kid that is kind of my friend is an idiot with girls, but SOMEHOW he has an amazingly hot g/f, but he is such a moron, he doesnt know what the hell hes doing, (example : he wont flirtwith her at PERFECT times or cuddle with her at perfect times or kiss her at perfect times, and she is really sad about it) well ive been talking to her about it a little, but how do i use my friends flaw as an advantage to maybe score some points with this girl?

thanks

and pls dont tell me blah blah he is ur friend u shudnt do that cuz he isnt really a friend of mine
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your friend does not have flaws. He isn't giving her everything she wants when she wants it. He is being a challenge, which actually makes her want him even more.
 
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your friend has no idea how to handle girls! I can't believe you know such an AFC.

what's your girlfriend's name again?
 
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no 'heyhey' ur wrong, u dont know the kid, he asks me why HIS gf is sad, and she tells me because he doesnt give her enough attention... he doesnt know wut the hell he is doing dude
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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And who are you to listen to her complaints about her boyfriend? Are you her therapist?
And what is about coudling and kissing at perfect times? What are the perfect times? Are perfect for her? For her boyfriend? Would you take advantage of all perfect times according to her? Are you sure you know the theory well enough?

Maybe you have to look again the bible and the articles. Especialy the part about conversation and the part about challenge. I don't know much about your friend but from what you provide i can see someone who is in the right track to be a natural. Maybe you can learn something from him.
 
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he is your friend and... oops.... you already said it for me...

Originally posted by neonlimited
he is ur friend u shudnt do that
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but seriously now, who are you to call someone an AFC? You dont have a girlfriend. correction: or know how to get a girlfriend.
 
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I don't have a girlfriend, I call people AFCs.
 
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Originally posted by neonlimited
its HIS gf.. her name is jessica
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lol, a) maybe she doesnt want her name on an internet forum

b) he was taking the piss, saying you dont have a gf and are sucking up to a bros gf and then calling him (the guy with a gf), an afc.

c) the blokes got the right tactics, the times are perfect for the girl, but not for him, keep a little excitement in there

d)welcome and you have a long way to go young padawan
 
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