"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Need some advice (pertaining to sex) super fast!! For tonight's conversation.

mecca411

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So lately I've been having some problems with my erections. Not sure what it is, but I suspect that it's a hairloss medication that I started taking a few months ago. I have a full head of hair and I'm only starting ot recede a bit, but I got paranoid because my dad is bald. Anyway, I think it's the culprit because I never had any problems before this. I'm 28, healthy, non-smoker, social drinker. I've been dating this girl for about 4 months and we just started having sex about a month ago.

I can always get her off with my hands and I'm hard enough for penetration, but it seems that I can't seem to get rock hard or have an orgasm. I know that it's really bothering her and I tried to blame it on my being tired from my sales job and poor diet, but it's not working. I waas chatting with her earlier and she asked if it was something else (i.e. disease, something more serious). I almost spilled about the hairloss medication, but I chickened out. and maybe it's not the real reason? I have no idea. Anyway, I'm chatting with her later on the phone(since i'm out of town right now). Should I tell her about the medication and blame it on that or should I just stall and get checked out by a doc or something?

This really bothering me because everything else with th[is girl is going great. I really don't want this to break us up. I need help fast!!!

M.

PLEASE email me at this address:

[email protected]

I won't have access to a computer tonight and email will be the only way that I can check the advice. I really need it. Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DeathDealer

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yo dude, a girl's not going to breakup with you just cause of performance.

if you actually read the effects you might get from the hair re-growth meds it might have something to do with it. check up on it and then tell your girl what's been going on.
 

Andromax

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I would see a doctor and get a professional opinion if it is causing you that much stress, man.


Could be one of two things,

Stress, which worrying about it isnt helping !

or Medication, which sucks, but hey, you know what?


Your doc can prescribe you some viagra!

Life is good these days.

Id go get checked out cause it could be something more serious, you never know!
 

The Rake

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Hair loss medication such as Propecia doesn't impede the effectiveness of Levitra or Viagra and more and more YOUNG males are asking their doctors for such erectile dysfunction solving prescriptions. Why? So as to leave nothing to chance. They're not just for old farts.
 

Scought

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Dont be so sure about that DeathDealer. YOud be surprised what girls will break up with you for. Now, they may not say it is performance related, they will find a way to end it, if they arent satisfied how they think they should be.

It is a real intimate issue, that they do take seriously.
However, in this case, if the girl really truly cares for this guy, then they will talk.
But it will become a sticking point of honesty isnt on the table.
If she does break it off, its her loss, and it would be a real immature thing to do. However, it does happen more than we want to admit
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lao tzu

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talk to the doc

workout

look at your diet and stress levels

blackberry jam and dark chocolate willhelp that solider
 
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