"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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need some advice on timing!

TheGambino

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Approached girl in club. HB7-8, responds: no not gonna do something with you to my opener i whispered.

Teased her sayin ooh your a dirty girl thinkin about that stuff immediatley.

She responds well and convo starts. Teased her several times had fun flirting. Told me her boyfriend was there too he was checking upon us.

Asked for her number coz it clicked very well and kino'ed her a lot, she had fun. Her boyfriend led her away and she gave me that 'omg -.-' look.

A friend of mine passed by and shout kiss too us! she said no i cant my boyfriend is here..

In the end when she wanted to leave she stayed around and danced in front of me turned around and looked at me like sory i got to go.

she gave me her first and last name so im thinking of adding her too facebook and just message her sometime in the future when im near her town..

Guys howlong should i wait till ill add her coz i seemed a bit needy asking for her number and flirting a lot.

thx!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheGambino said:
Guys howlong should i wait till ill add her coz i seemed a bit needy asking for her number and flirting a lot.
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You don't understand what that word means if you think asking a girl for her # is needy.

Flat out its NOT. It shows confidence & that you go after what you want, bf or not.

I also think its funny how guys think if they wait a magical # of days that suddenly the girl will be more/less interested in them.

We live in an instant gratification type of society now days. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, text etc. Contact her sooner rather than later with no apologies. Once you get her on the hook, then you can start delaying your response times and gaming her.

Cross that first hurdle first, then work on a game plan.









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Yes haha but I checked some FB pics she aintworth the 9
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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