"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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need some advice on timing!

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Approached girl in club. HB7-8, responds: no not gonna do something with you to my opener i whispered.

Teased her sayin ooh your a dirty girl thinkin about that stuff immediatley.

She responds well and convo starts. Teased her several times had fun flirting. Told me her boyfriend was there too he was checking upon us.

Asked for her number coz it clicked very well and kino'ed her a lot, she had fun. Her boyfriend led her away and she gave me that 'omg -.-' look.

A friend of mine passed by and shout kiss too us! she said no i cant my boyfriend is here..

In the end when she wanted to leave she stayed around and danced in front of me turned around and looked at me like sory i got to go.

she gave me her first and last name so im thinking of adding her too facebook and just message her sometime in the future when im near her town..

Guys howlong should i wait till ill add her coz i seemed a bit needy asking for her number and flirting a lot.

thx!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheGambino said:
Guys howlong should i wait till ill add her coz i seemed a bit needy asking for her number and flirting a lot.
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You don't understand what that word means if you think asking a girl for her # is needy.

Flat out its NOT. It shows confidence & that you go after what you want, bf or not.

I also think its funny how guys think if they wait a magical # of days that suddenly the girl will be more/less interested in them.

We live in an instant gratification type of society now days. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, text etc. Contact her sooner rather than later with no apologies. Once you get her on the hook, then you can start delaying your response times and gaming her.

Cross that first hurdle first, then work on a game plan.









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Yes haha but I checked some FB pics she aintworth the 9
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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