"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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need some advice on timing!

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Approached girl in club. HB7-8, responds: no not gonna do something with you to my opener i whispered.

Teased her sayin ooh your a dirty girl thinkin about that stuff immediatley.

She responds well and convo starts. Teased her several times had fun flirting. Told me her boyfriend was there too he was checking upon us.

Asked for her number coz it clicked very well and kino'ed her a lot, she had fun. Her boyfriend led her away and she gave me that 'omg -.-' look.

A friend of mine passed by and shout kiss too us! she said no i cant my boyfriend is here..

In the end when she wanted to leave she stayed around and danced in front of me turned around and looked at me like sory i got to go.

she gave me her first and last name so im thinking of adding her too facebook and just message her sometime in the future when im near her town..

Guys howlong should i wait till ill add her coz i seemed a bit needy asking for her number and flirting a lot.

thx!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheGambino said:
Guys howlong should i wait till ill add her coz i seemed a bit needy asking for her number and flirting a lot.
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You don't understand what that word means if you think asking a girl for her # is needy.

Flat out its NOT. It shows confidence & that you go after what you want, bf or not.

I also think its funny how guys think if they wait a magical # of days that suddenly the girl will be more/less interested in them.

We live in an instant gratification type of society now days. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, text etc. Contact her sooner rather than later with no apologies. Once you get her on the hook, then you can start delaying your response times and gaming her.

Cross that first hurdle first, then work on a game plan.









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Yes haha but I checked some FB pics she aintworth the 9
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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