"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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need some advice on cougars

Ice_Berg_1

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Went to the club the other night and got approached by a sexy 36 year old. It was nice to not have to be the aggressive one and it was alot of fun making this women work for my s--t after 10 min of small talk I opened up to her and she began making any exuse to touch me. I got the feeling this woman wanted to take me home but I played it cool, took her number and gave her a hug and we parted ways.

should i have just gone for the one night stand? Since I didn't when I do call this women and we get together should I go about it assuming that she is just looking for some fun with younger man I am 11 years younger than her. Or should I handle this with the same mindset that I would if she were a younger women and assume that I am going to have to work for it. I think this woman would make a nice addition to my rotation but when it comes to older women I've got no experience and I don't want to mess this up.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Chewy Bagel

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Originally posted by Ice_Berg_1
should i have just gone for the one night stand? Since I didn't when I do call this women and we get together should I go about it assuming that she is just looking for some fun.
She was all about banging you that night. From my experience older women who approach younger guys want sex -- now!

Shoulda done her.

Call her and she'll do you - trust me.

Just have a good time with her and it'll be your place or her's afterwards. Don't forget a condom.

Enjoy the ride!

(WTF is a cougar??)
 

maranathaman

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Yeah wtf is a "cougar" speak freakin english! :D
Is that some sosuave term that I missed?

Women are VERY EXTREMELY moody/flighty/ficle!
One minute they are hot for your package, the next the're all "ew! get away you creep!"
If You are not ready to pounce on your "cougar" when she's in "heat", you'll most likely loose your opportunity.
Especially in a bar situation. As we know, Alcohol oftentimes
causes women to be horney/lower their inhibitions. So when you are there at the right place at the right time, with a horney drunk "cougar", you better be ready to take advantage of the situation, or some other DJ will! I've missed-out on too-many opportunities to get laid this way.
A wise man once said, "he who hesitates, ma$turbate$!"
 

NewMan

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Generally you have to hit it while you can...

You should have sealed the deal then and there - you may not get another chance.
 

Slickster

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Originally posted by maranathaman
Yeah wtf is a "cougar" speak freakin english! :D
Is that some sosuave term that I missed?
Lol

Here is a definition of a "Cougar". Or "Coug" if you like abbreviations. Feel free to add more detail anyone?

Cougar (ku'ger) n. 1.an older woman (ie. 30+ years) who is past her prime in the looks department. 2.Commonly found prowling in bars and other drinking establishments preying on younger men who are desperate for sex. 3.Cougars are well aware of their fading looks and use sex to lure young men into their den. 4.Many Cougars will be single, smoke cigarettes, and may possibly have a leathery, wrinkled face which may be disguised under a thick layer of make-up. 5.Some Cougars travel alone but may also travel in packs. (ie. Check out Billy gettin' worked by that pack of Cougs.)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJ_Dork

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f00l, you should've asked if she wanted to go somewhere "private" to continue talking. You missed out, the next time you see her.. she will not look your way , and if you call her she'll shove you in friends category unless you are good looking.
 
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