"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i've been seeing this chick for a month or so.. she's one of those girls that have everything you could possibly want in a girl. you know..yada yada. it's actually kind of funny because i'm kind of inexperienced in making a girl into my girlfriend.

anyways, it's good, between us. i could tell earlier on that she was interested, and all the sudden she got a little bit uninterested so i ignored her for about a week. which worked because i called her yesterday and she seemed very positive and very interested. I could tell that she's a little bit afraid of me because when i went offline she goes online. i seriously need to make a move on her, but i don't want to scare her away.

here's the drama tho.. as i was walking down the stairs from my math class. it was lunch time at the moment and i see her back walking with some dude in a green jacket and black thick glasses and some other chick. i don't think she saw me but ...made me a little bit jealous. anyone know what i should do...i need to get this done by saturday your thanks is seriously well appreciated.

i need information on when i should call, if i should call, what kind of moves should i make (should i ask her to get together for lunch?)... i have an idea to take her shopping on saturday.. stuff like that. :yes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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xdreamz said:
i need information on when i should call, if i should call, what kind of moves should i make (should i ask her to get together for lunch?)... i have an idea to take her shopping on saturday.. stuff like that. :yes:
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What's wrong with you young guys??? Take her shopping?? WHAT?????:confused: That is not why men go after women!!!

You seem a bit desperate and nervous and she is aware that you like her. You simply need to ask her out and quit stalking her!.

Does she log on after you log off to avoid you? I don't know what kind of vibe you are giving her? You are jealous of a girl that is not attached to you??? HUH??

Ask her to go to the movies this weekend and if she goes with you do a fake yawn and stretch your arms out and land one of them on her shoulder - see how she responds - this is an old school technique!!
 
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