Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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i've been seeing this chick for a month or so.. she's one of those girls that have everything you could possibly want in a girl. you know..yada yada. it's actually kind of funny because i'm kind of inexperienced in making a girl into my girlfriend.

anyways, it's good, between us. i could tell earlier on that she was interested, and all the sudden she got a little bit uninterested so i ignored her for about a week. which worked because i called her yesterday and she seemed very positive and very interested. I could tell that she's a little bit afraid of me because when i went offline she goes online. i seriously need to make a move on her, but i don't want to scare her away.

here's the drama tho.. as i was walking down the stairs from my math class. it was lunch time at the moment and i see her back walking with some dude in a green jacket and black thick glasses and some other chick. i don't think she saw me but ...made me a little bit jealous. anyone know what i should do...i need to get this done by saturday your thanks is seriously well appreciated.

i need information on when i should call, if i should call, what kind of moves should i make (should i ask her to get together for lunch?)... i have an idea to take her shopping on saturday.. stuff like that. :yes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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xdreamz said:
i need information on when i should call, if i should call, what kind of moves should i make (should i ask her to get together for lunch?)... i have an idea to take her shopping on saturday.. stuff like that. :yes:
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What's wrong with you young guys??? Take her shopping?? WHAT?????:confused: That is not why men go after women!!!

You seem a bit desperate and nervous and she is aware that you like her. You simply need to ask her out and quit stalking her!.

Does she log on after you log off to avoid you? I don't know what kind of vibe you are giving her? You are jealous of a girl that is not attached to you??? HUH??

Ask her to go to the movies this weekend and if she goes with you do a fake yawn and stretch your arms out and land one of them on her shoulder - see how she responds - this is an old school technique!!
 
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