"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

need serious serious advice, and i need it now

Moofahsa

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2007
Messages
203
Reaction score
3
Location
Deep South
My g/f left her purse on top of my car and it blew off and got run over.

I went back and spent an hour and a half picking up all her receipts and junk. Long story short I find a love letter from her EX that is from the period from where we were dating. Granted it is old and stained, but it is still from the time period we have been dating (probably over 3 or 4 months old)

What do I do? She went back to him twice in the past...and he is now in jail...this is obviously a jail letter. I don't know what to do here, part of me knows this woman is absolutely no good and another part wants to stay with here. First she said the letter was a year and a half old, which is total bull**** considering things in the letter suggest it cannot be more than 8 months old. Then she says it was in a pocket she never looks in, which isn't too believable because it is a page of notebook paper folded up in 4 parts....

What sucks more is I run into her every single day.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

shavedhead

New Member
Joined
Sep 6, 2008
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
dont even bother dude its not even worth it. you can't trust her at all. why would u wanna be with a girl that wants her ex and has lied to you
 

wolf116

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2006
Messages
1,661
Reaction score
16
Downgrade her to fvck buddy status (cut all emotions for her) without telling her, while you look for other women.
 

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,591
Reaction score
6,379
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
Guys in jail love every woman they can think of to write to. What is the length of his current sentence? At least you know he's not fvcking her if he's locked up.

The more troubling part is that she lied about it to you.
 
Top